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Don’t Try to Shame Me Anymore……
A while back, I had a friend on Facebook try to shame me by saying that I am only voting for Hillary Clinton because she is a woman. Well, he actually didn’t call her a woman, he described her by her vagina. I felt, as did my friends that we had to defend our position by pointing out her qualifications. He refused to believe that we were that knowledgable so he persisted with his idea. The more he pushed, the more I felt the need to prove that Hillary was more than just a woman. Through out this election, I feel like I have been having to defend her and my position by down playing the fact that she is a woman. I am mad at myself for allowing him or anyone to bully me away from this important historical aspect and the excitement of what is about to happen.
We are going to elect our very First Woman President.
I am done side stepping the fact that Hillary Clinton is a woman. She has fought hard to get to this spot in history. I am done with listening to people whine about how unlikeable she is by using the same sort of the scrutiny that all women have had to put up with through out history…. She is too loud, her voice is too shrill, she is not feminine, she is not pretty, She is not soft, she is too cold acting, she doesn’t smile enough, she wears pant suits, she is too robotic, her hair cut is not feminine enough, she is too secretive, she is not trustworthy, she is too forward.She is too assertive or career minded. And ON and ON…All of her public life, she has been battered by the media so it is little wonder that so many have bought into that sort of propaganda. What Hillary has accomplished in her service to our country outweighs what the opposition is trying to batter us with now. I don’t view Hillary Clinton as Mother Theresa but she is by far NOT the devil incarnate either. She is an accomplished, intelligent and extremely qualified WOMAN.
Her opponent expounds the idea that he is worthy of President because he is an outsider to politics. Hillary may have chosen politics as her career path but as most of us know, her gender has caused her to be an outsider who has had to fight harder to get her foothold. Politics has always been a man’s domain so maybe if it is screwed up, the kind of ousiders we need are informed women. In 2015, 104 (76D, 28R) women hold seats in the United States Congress, comprising 19.4% of the 535 members; 20 women (20%) serve in the United States Senate, and 84 women (19.3%) serve in the United States House of Representatives. Zero women have been President of the United States. That is (0%.)
She will make mistakes along the way. Attacks on her will be brutal. Her opponent and his followers will plague her like the locusts that they are. But like the Suffragists before her, she will set an example to pave the way for more women to be brave enough to step up and attempt to make this world an even better place for all of us. She is about to show us that women can be anything they dream of being…. even President of the United States of America.
Oh, and did I mention she is a WOMAN!!!!!!!!!
What I learned by Watching the Democratic Convention
Okay, I will admit it.. I drank the Kool-Aid that the Democratic Party offered. After the horrifyingly bleak Trump Convention, my mouth was so dry that I gulped the optimistic message this week like a drunken sailor. And by Friday morning, I was so refreshed, enthused about life and ready to take on the world.
What I learned from watching this convention was why I should be on board for Hillary Clinton. It was a stark contrast to what I learned about Donald Trump from the RNC . The first fact is that Hillary Clinton has worked to help our country for over 25 years, as a lawyer, first lady in Arkansas, first lady to the President, Senator of New York and Secretary of State. During that same time, Trump has done nothing but help himself. He has built a business by filing Chapter 11 four different times and in his personal life, has been married three times. This shows me that he has a tendency to give up quickly and take the easiest way out he can find. On the other hand, Hillary worked through the difficult times in her marriage and when her attempt at working on the healthcare program failed, she pushed on to make it work in another way.
I learned this week that Hillary is a fighter, not because she is some power hungry demon trying to destroy our way of life but because she believes in helping people when they are in need and she wants to make our lives better. Her motto is from the Methodist founder, John Wesley “Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.” I learned that if Hillary had been more public about all the good things she was doing for people, maybe all the demonizing could have been squashed or at least tempered. But I guess her good deeds were not driven by that evil ego that she is supposed to possess.
I learned that Hillary is strong and when it comes to being commander in chief, she has a steady nature that will keep our country safe. She is an avid listener which is a quality for any good leader. By listening, she will learn the heart of a problem and take advice to attempt to fix the problem. Trump feels he “alone” knows how to fix everything and probably with little thought or consideration for anyone around him.
I learned that Hillary is fair enough to acknowledge what Bernie Sanders has done for the Democratic Party. She is smart enough to work with him to include his ideas into the party platform. I only wish some of his “dreamers” had enough vision to understand the process and realize that if they waste their vote by not voting for Hillary, any viable chance of what they have been fighting for will be lost to the wind, if she doesn’t win.
I learned that Hillary gets along with both sides of the aisle. When she was a Senator she was commended by Republicans for working with them. Maybe that is why so many Republicans are with her this time. She understands the system and how it works in order to work with in it. Now this baffles me the most. I understand that our system needs a lot of work and that we need a change. But Hillary Clinton is the most qualified to lead us to a solution. Change does not mean hiring someone for the job who is woefully unqualified. Would you hire someone who knows nothing about automobiles to fix your car? Would you hire someone who knows nothing about the mechanics of your pipes to fix your plumbing? Or any other problem that you have? Now is not the time to be stupid about your choices.
And most of all, I learned that the people who know Hillary the best, trust her. They have dealt with her one on one for years. They trust her nature. They know what motivates her and they trust her. They know her first hand. All we really know about her is what we have read.
In order to get through until November without having a stroke by worrying about the failure that is Donald Trump, I have chosen to visualize our First Woman President being elected. I have chosen positivity over hate, misogyny and bigotry. After all, I belong to an Optimistic Party with a diversity of inclusion.
And as Susan B Anthony instructed us “Failure is Impossible”
So I can very proudly say, “I’m With Her!!!”
TO The Women Against Feminism:…..
I guess it is time to dust off this blog.
TO the Women Against Feminism:
First of all, I have gone to your website and read your signs and it is clear to me that you have bought into a very negative assumption of who a feminist is .
I am a feminist. I shave my legs and under my arms. Even though I am over weight, I worry and fuss with how I look. I go to the gym. Wearing black is not a militant statement but my feeble attempt to look thinner. I love men. I am married to one. I am a stepmom. We have four grandsons. I am not angry. In fact, I am a pretty happy person. I laugh quite a bit. I don’t feel oppressed . I feel very lucky. Most of my girlfriends are feminists with the kind of empathy and compassion that comes from the experience of living long lives. We are not harpies…
We understand the exhausting work that many women did by stepping forward and demanding that women have equal rights. If you think that women’s struggles are over, you are mistaken. As long as there are discussions about what women can or cannot do with their own bodies, there will be more hard work to be done. Are there discussions of making laws about what men can do with their bodies ? Women need to stick together, not be pitted against each other…
Your agenda reads Women Against Women to me and I am not clear why you feel the need to slam the brave women who have blazed a trail to give you the very rights you are exercising.. These rights did not come to you out of thin air. In Biblical times, men debated whether women had souls and it wasn’t until 1920, after a long hard struggle and a lot of persistence that women won the right to vote. You are able to lead your privileged lives because of feminists…..
Look, this is all about the spin…Being a “feminist” has always met with opposition. Mainly from people who felt threatened by women with an opinion. It was important for these people to give a negative spin on the word as part of their strategy. And sadly, you believe them. That’s okay, I was young and naive once, too.
Now, I am but one of the feminists you are against. But I want you to know that although I know you are extremely capable of speaking out for yourself, I am FOR you. And I will never be AGAINST you, even if you are against me. I can live with that. Women have done that for hundreds of years.
And lastly, I like to have my door opened for me too but I also like to open that door for other people. It is a sign of caring and respect.
Three Suffragists Etchings…..
I started with 3 rather large drawings that I made of 3 suffragists…. Susan B Anthony, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Carrie Chapman Catt … Sort of the beginning and the end results of the process of getting women the right to vote…. I have been interested for quite some time in the idea of creating images of women using words or objects to form their bodies and drawing their heads… These women had so much to say that I thought it would be quite easy to form their bodies with their words…. Since Susan B was on the road so much, I filled her with advertisements of her upcoming speeches and other ephemera promoting her….. And her infamous statement running down her arm, “Failure is Impossible”.. and a photo of Elizabeth Cady Stanton over her heart…..
I have a good collection of suffrage postcards and wanted to include them some way so I made etchings of three of them and matched them up to the three different women…. The Susan B Lives postcard, of course, was obvious and had to go with my Susan B etching and I think, completes the idea that her spirit is still alive and well in the current women’s movement…. our ever constant fight for equality with the men and generally our place in the world…. Failure is Impossible…. The postcard is something done in probably the 70s…..
For Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B’s best friend, I filled her body with her most important speech, “The Solitude of Self”….. If you are not familiar with this writing, check it out by clicking here.. It is probably the best piece she wrote and speaks passionately of full freedoms of individuals… It was her farewell speech when she resigned as president of the National American Woman Suffrage Association in 1892….. Again, remember we didn’t get the vote until 1920….. The postcard I chose to be paired with her etching was probably from either the 30s 0r 40s and was a birth announcement. I felt she was definitely born to fight for this cause …..
And in the third etching of Carrie Chapman Catt, I constructed her body with an article that she wrote for a magazine about Equal Suffrage as an Issue of World Democracy… Carrie Chapman Catt sort of brought a conclusion to the voting struggle along with Alice Paul and all of the numerous courageous suffragists….. I love the postcard that I used with her of George Washington questioning “Did I save my country for this?”….. Well, yes, George W, this is our country too…..
I chose the accent color of red to punch up the striking importance of this part of our history…… Red is a color that is hard to ignore….. And for you printmakers, I printed the two colors on one plate and the color on the postcards was added after the etchings were printed and dried.
Each of these etchings is about 5.5 X 10 inches….
and just a little FYI….. are $145. each, unframed….
The Tolerating of Sarah Palin…. Part Two… Hockey Mom
They Had No Time to be Hockey Moms
In my quest to learn to tolerate Sarah Palin, I thought it would be best to start at the heart of who she claims to be….. a Hockey Mom….. and what qualifies a Hockey Mom to become the Vice President of the United States…..
In Texas, we have soccer Moms…. Probably not that many hockey moms but what do I know…. My stepdaughter, Lea is a soccer mom times two and her world to me is an incomprehensible whirl wind ….
Lea is an absolute wonder…
But are soccer moms and Hockey moms similar ??…
I started my investigation at Google which led me to, believe it or not…… www.hockeymoms.com ….. A whole website dedicated to the world of Hockey Moms…. who knew….
This website is great…. it gives you all kinds of information from defogging visors, recipes for on the run to buying an SUV or a van…. How cool is that?….
Maybe a hockey mom could be a VP or President of one of the most powerful nations, after all?…..
I hope that Sarah has this website bookmarked….. the entry on” Choosing a fundraising company” could prove to be quite helpful…. Maybe selling chocolate covered nuts would be effective in saving our economy……
And then there is a page completely dedicated to the Hockey Mom characteristics that would be valuable in the White House…… This goes straight to the meat of the matter and surprisingly makes a lot of sense…
I worry that It sounds like a Hockey Mom is far too busy to hold such a high office but there is another whole page on how to organize your household, your little hockey player and manage your time….. So I guess it could be done….
But just as I think I am starting to tolerate Sarah Palin, I remember how she acted in the debate with Joe Biden and how she defiantly told Gwen Ifel that she wasn’t going to answer the questions if she didn’t feel like it….Boy, as the referee, Gwen should have put her hands on her hips and Sarah would have understood the hand signal for “misconduct”……Maybe she would have tried to follow the rules of the debate more and maybe answered the questions more responsibly …Maybe she would have even said something of substance……. As a Hockey Mom, she should have known better ….. After all, in any other sport, you obey the rules or there are consequences.
The only thing left to wonder is what a Hockey Mom does when her team loses….. I hope Palin knows how to behave in good sportsmanlike behavior….. but I’m sure that she will since she is….. a Hockey Mom….
But this is only part of what she has told us about herself….. she claims to be a Maverick, too…. hmmm, I feel like I am really getting to know Sarah Palin….. I still am not voting for her but I am starting to tolerate her just a little bit more…..
One Crucial Vote
In order to pass the Nineteenth Amendment and give women the right to vote all the states had to be on board to ratify…. In the middle of 1920, it all came down to Tennessee to cast the deciding vote….
On August 18, 1920, the Tennessee House met to have their say…. The room was filled with roses…. a red rose in the lapel meant that the member was against suffrage and a yellow rose meant they were for it….. In counting the roses, it looked like the women needed one more supporter for their cause…. Twenty four year old, Harry Burn came into the chamber that day sporting a red rose…. AND a letter in his suit pocket from his mother…. the letter read….
Dear Son, Vote for suffrage and don’t keep them in doubt. I notice some of the speeches against. They are very bitter. I have been watching to see how you stood but have not seen anything yet. Don’t forget to be a good boy and help Mrs. Catt put the “rat” in ratification. Your Mother
When it was his turn to vote, he followed his mother’s advice…. Harry Burn voted “yes” and gave women what they had fought seventy two years for…. their right to vote….. Women in the balcony burst into deafening applause….
It is said that they took off his red rose and replaced it with a yellow one….
Above is my drawing and tribute to Harry Burn of Tennessee….
And before you get all hypercritical and read more into the fact that I didn’t include his head, understand that this piece is more about the “suits” in our lives and the decisions they make that govern our liberties…. This particular “suit” gave us our freedom to be legitimately counted….. This year, in this election, we need to exercise that privilege and choose the most capable “suits” to ensure the protection of our rights….. One vote was crucial in 1920 and your vote is just as important now…..
And if your are not registered to cast your one crucial vote, go to this map to show you exactly where you can do just that……. WHERE DO I REGISTER